On Saturday... i had a chat with a lady who lives in calabar and married with 3kids whom i met at an open seminal. we easily became friends after i told her i came all the way from Lagos just for the program.Few minus after the program she came to me and asked if i was a lawyer and i replied "NO". But i notice she looked worried and i asked her if she is fine and she said "Yes, i just want to divorce my husband as soon as possible". I was a bit surprised and wanted to advice her not to then i realized am not married yet and am not a marriage coach.
Then i said "Ha, madam think about it oh" and she replied "i have but
the more i stay i die inside slowly".
Immediately i heard "DIE" i paused and asked "Madam what do you mean by die slowly?" she replied "My husband is a horse". Then i got the message with a smile.
So she asked me to seat as she began to narrate everything that has been eating her inside for long.
She said, "I got married 2010 and since then all i have been arching from my husband is sex sex sex". She continues "Be we sleep sex, before he goes to work sex when he comes from work sex".
Then i realized she was in a biiiig problem. After few minute of crying she said "Most times i dont wear anything short or tie raper because once he sees me in any of them, his veins will rise and the next thing is sex. he is so strong that i cant push him away until i knew a way to stop and reduce his man power anytime he returns from work".
I was very happy for her when i heard she was able to stop her, then i asked "how did u do it?" She replied "Hmm, everyday i pretend that i so love him so that whenever i give him his morning tea or evening juice he will happily collect and drink it all. once he is done drinking, i started touching him like i want sex which i know he will never have the strength to do"
I was confused and got more interested, then she continued and said "A doctor friend of mine gave me a drug that weakens someone for about 10-15mins to put in his drinks which i don't fail to do and after drinking he will be weak and by the time he gathers his strength back he must have lost interest."
She said she has been doing it for two weeks but he fear is, what if he finds out or doesn't accepts to take her drinks anymore, then the sex punishment will start again.
Right there i was confused and didn't know if what she is doing is wrong or right but i felt her anger and wish to help her out of her situation.
I later advised her to go to police or any government agencies to report the case because am very they are the right people to solve that kind of problem.
Please my dear friends, let us all take this woman's situation one of the reason we say no to Sex Slave and stand up for your right.
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